Can you protect your child not become a stalker or a stalker? Why, yes. At least there are some guidelines that can help both the family as educators and society in general, to prevent this phenomenon. Tackling bullying is everyone’s responsibility. Each party involved must play their part:
Education is a very difficult task as parents or mothers are experts in education or were born ready to educate their children. But the family is built and its condition is considered essential for the socialization of children through the transmission of values, norms, behaviors, etc. The family is the one that has to establish what is objectionable and what is acceptable at home and in social relations. According to experts on bullying, lack of rules, lack of supervision and reasonable control of the behavior of children out of school, what they do and with whom they, too harsh discipline, lack of communication and occurrence of tension and fights in the family, can lead to acquire children aggressive behaviors.
What can families do
There are courses and meetings of school parents who can guide the parents about what you can do to keep their children away from bullying. They are based usually on basic rules such as:
- worrying about your children, talking to them. Create a channel of dialogue with them. Avoid monologues. Is learned and best known children hearing them.
- Be aware of possible symptoms such as nervousness, lack of appetite, insomnia, poor school performance, school phobia, etc.
- Check and monitor their children’s behavior, watching what you do, where to go, who to play, what their interests, projects, etc..
- Determine the limits and standards. Enforce the basic.
- Educate to control emotions, to behave with others, to live with others.
- to observe the behavior, moods, and changes in the habits of children.
The type of discipline you have in the classroom and in the center is of fundamental importance in building a good character. The constant supervision in the classroom and on the playground and in the dining room also considered when detecting whether or not some bullying going on. Teachers and caregivers should be present, always.
Schools should do
At first, not close our eyes to reality. Establish rules to prevent bullying, keeping a suggestion box is always open and complaints, address the issue through courses, lectures or tutorials, to caregivers or caretakers in the dining room, recreation, and other risk areas introduce and maintain values education courses, and participate in a fast, direct and forceful in the event there is any suspicion of bullying. In complicity with the school, teachers should collaborate in identifying a case, or simply by setting rules with their students non-aggression.
What can institutions and the media
Create and maintain a public phone for kids is a way to open a door to potential conflicts. The annual awareness campaigns can also work to prevent bullying. As for the media would be interesting and viable control over the content they broadcast or publish.
Society in general has to prevent and tackle possible outbreaks of harassment. You must be attentive and not let anything or think that everything is normal or is it a joke. When a child teases, threatens or hits another child, it must intervene so that will not recur. When the playground someone makes fun of the appearance of another person, we must rebuke him. The bad thing is cut at the root.