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The adolescent crisis is followed by the crisis of the parents, because changes in behavior in adolescence test the projects and desires deposited in the children even before birth.

Therefore, we must perform a kind of mourning for the ideal child, a figure that never existed or exist as a result of narcissism and expectations of adults.

The crisis of adolescence
The crisis of adolescence, has different meanings in the collective imagination. Both the public and scientific opinion, describe it as a period of personal crisis, conflict and tension, as if through it meant to refer, naturally and without recourse to a negative and problematic stage. From the standpoint of psychological and medical, adolescence is a process through acts of rebellion and contradictions, and no doubt, full of situations of varying intensity of conflict.

For parents adolescence is a cloud threatening, warning of storms in family relationships when their children are just beginning to leave childhood. The crisis of adolescence is the result of an internal conflict of a young man who has the power to think and the inability to decide a child. And very hard and long, are the early years of puberty, after which everything seems back to normal and the parents believe they have recovered the quiet son of the previous years, but in reality this child and this child is not idealized.

Adult society in general responsible to the adolescence of many and varied ills and adolescents themselves describe incredible property that causes disorders. Teenagers are the main victims of the most serious problems of our society such as violence, drugs, AIDS and deaths from accidental causes in traffic. Currently, this myth about adolescence is put into question by many researchers and adolescent crisis must not be raised, necessarily, as a problem or weakness, but as an essential process for the emergence of the adult. Adolescence is a bad natural, necessary and temporary.